Imagine suddenly having a completely new and fresh outlook on relationships and being able to truly enjoy being in a committed relationship.
When you have a fear of commitment, you probably ask yourself –
“Why am I so afraid to say ‘I love you’?”
“Why do I sabotage every single relationship I’ve been in?”
“Why do I put up a wall to keep other’s from getting too close?”
“I don’t want to be alone. Will I ever be able to be happy with someone?”
Fear of commitment can leave you feeling alone, destroy significant relationships, and make you feel stagnant in your life. Maybe you suffered some sort of traumatic experience, or maybe you were raised by a parent who was emotionally distant. There are several reasons you may be afraid to commit, and hypnosis for fear of commitment can help you overcome no matter what the cause.
While it may be something that’s joked about in sitcoms and romantic comedies, a fear of commitment is a very serious problem. It can destroy good relationships, and it can prevent you from moving forward with your life.
A fear of commitment manifests itself in a variety of ways. You may be terrified of marriage, scared to say “I love you”, or even afraid to have a significant other altogether!
In many cases, people know that they have a fear of commitment. They may even be actively working toward solving it.
However, that’s not enough.
Even if you consciously understand that you have a problem, your subconscious mind – where most of your thoughts and actions really come from – may have other ideas. Even if you consciously make an effort to commit to your significant other – or commit to the idea of merely looking for a significant other – you may have inner-turmoil because you will be getting interference from your subconscious.
Saying the words ‘I love you’
Being fully committed to your significant other, and enjoying it
Having no fears of marriage or long-term commitment
Moving forward in your relationship without walls, fears, or sabotage
So, how can fear of commitment hypnosis help you?
Hypnosis is not a “Band-Aid” like other treatment techniques. Instead of just trying to relieve the symptoms, hypnosis attacks problems at their root – in the subconscious mind. Since hypnosis is the only way that allows you to tap into your subconscious, you can use it to figure out where your fear of commitment is coming from, so that you know how to deal with it.
Hypnosis can help reprogram your mind and facilitate behavioral change.
The New York Hypnosis Institute 4 Step Overcome Your Fear of Commitment Hypnosis Program Can Help You
- Identify the Reason for Your Fear of Commitment
- Replace Catastrophic Thoughts with Truthful Statements
- Assist in Reprogramming the Way You Think About Committed Relationships
- Teach Self Hypnosis for Daily Reinforcement
In many cases, people develop a fear of commitment as a result of a trauma early in life – like parents who got divorced or a mother who was emotionally distant. If something like that has happened to you, your subconscious mind may have taken that past experience and blown it out of proportion.
Now, your subconscious believes that your current relationship is going to end in divorce like your parents, or that all women are emotionally distant like your mom was – and, thus, can’t be trusted with a commitment. No matter how many times you try to tell yourself that’s not the case, your subconscious mind doesn’t believe it, and, instead, actively prevents you from making a commitment.
Instead of working on coming to terms with your prior experiences – like you would in a psychologist’s office – fear of commitment hypnosis will help you move forward by re-programming your subconscious mind to understand that those past experiences have no bearing on your current relationship.
Fear of commitment hypnosis can teach your subconscious to approach your current relationship with a fresh approach, instead of dragging all of your emotional baggage into it. By teaching your subconscious to separate the past from the present, you can wind up with a happy, committed relationship in the near future!
Fear of Commitment hypnosis helps replace the negative subconscious thoughts which lead to stress and anxiety with more pleasant and positive subconscious thoughts and feelings. The NY Hypnosis Institute specializes in helping clients overcome their fear of commitment.
Hypnosis is a natural state, that when achieved, allows your hypnotist to access your subconscious mind. When you watch a movie, read a book, or focus on a project at work and lose track of time, you are experiencing hypnosis. Once a client is guided into hypnosis, we at the NY Hypnosis Institute can then give positive suggestions directly to the subconscious mind.
Chances are something in your past is to blame. However, it’s not uncommon for the subconscious mind to blow things out of proportion, so you may not even remember the past event that has led to your current fear of commitment!
During a New York Hypnosis Fear of Commitment hypnosis session, you can identify the event from your past that has been blown out of proportion. Your hypnotist can then reframe the way your subconscious mind perceives that event, allowing the fear and anxiety to be released. Essentially your hypnotist will teach your subconscious mind that those negative experiences from your past no longer need to impact you in a negative way.
Fear of commitment hypnosis eliminates any blocks that reside in your subconscious and keep you from being in, and enjoying, a devoted relationship. It can reprogram how your mind thinks about relationships and eliminates the fears that are holding you back. Hypnosis for fear of commitment gives you the freedom to participate in the joy of being in a committed relationship and sharing your life with that special person.
We will identify the feelings and triggers you experience so that the suggestions given to your subconscious mind will be tailored to your specific challenge. With the combination of regression and suggestions the fear can be eliminated in just a few sessions.
A New York Hypnosis Fear of Commitment Hypnosis session can retrain your mind to:
Eliminate your Fear of Commitment completely
Provide you with the freedom to truly enjoy your relationship
Disclaimer: Results may vary from person to person